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Friday, January 24, 2020

Rebecca Ran to Her Mother's House




The man [Abraham's servant] bowed his head and worshiped the Lord and said, “Blessed be the Lord, the God of my master Abraham, who has not forsaken his steadfast love and his faithfulness toward my master. As for me, the Lord has led me in the way to the house of my master's kinsmen.” Then the young woman ran and told her mother's household about these things. Genesis 24:27-28


Alice C. Linsley


A very ancient practice is alluded to in Ruth 1:8-9. Here Naomi urges her daughters-in-law to return to their “mother’s house.” This is Naomi’s way of encouraging Orpah and Ruth to remarry. Hoping that they will marry again, Naomi sends them back to their mothers.

The “mother's house” is where women gathered to plan weddings for betrothed girls. The women attended to the practical arrangements for weddings and the items needed to set up a new household. On the other hand, the “father's house” was where the fathers deliberated the terms of the marriage involving dowry, inheritance, and property. The elders of the village were present to witness the deliberations. Sometimes fathers denied marriage to eligible daughters.

A woman who was forbidden to marry (or re-marry) was to return to her father's house. When Judah refused to marry another of his sons to Tamar, as was required by the Levirate marriage law, he told her to return to the father’s house (Gen. 38:11).

Scholars have noted that Rebecca ran to her mother's house to announce the marriage proposal from Isaac (Gen. 24:28). Running to her mother's house expressed Rebecca's willingness to accept the marriage proposal delivered by Abraham's servant.

This practice entails more than preparing for a wedding and a new household. It is about building a lineage. Naomi tells both of her widowed daughters-in-law to return to their "mother's house" so that they can remarry and have families. The perpetuation of the lineage also guaranteed the survival of the clan.

Apparently, dissatisfied concubines could return to their father’s house. Judges 19:1-3 reports that a priest’s concubine left him and returned to her father’s house in Bethlehem. The priest went to Bethlehem and persuaded her to return. Unfortunately, she was sexually assaulted by the men of Gibeah (Saul’s hometown) and she died as a result of her injuries. This incident inflamed the clans to attack the Benjaminites who refused to turn over the men who violated the concubine. This led to war, and the clan of Benjamin was eventually routed. According to Judges 21, the men of Israel swore an oath at Mizpah, saying, "None of us shall give his daughter to Benjamin as a wife."

It is likely that Dinah returned to the father’s house after she was raped near the city of Shechem. In an act of vengeance, her brothers Levi and Simeon killed the men of Shechem (Gen. 34).




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